When You’re Mad at God
“When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered, I was senseless and ignorant;
I was a brute beast before You.”
Psalms 73:21-22 (NIV)
Have you ever been angry at God? Perhaps things didn’t turn out the way you expected them, or circumstances beyond your control devastated you. You may have felt God was unfair, unkind, or didn’t care. As a pastor, I’m asked if it is wrong for a believer to have anger towards God?
The truth is, I don’t know of any relationship exempt from conflict or anger at times. In fact, expressing our anger is healthy if done with respect and control. Repressing or denying our anger is unhealthy and only prolongs the issue. Because our faith in God is expressed in a relationship with Him and our understanding is limited it seems only natural that there would be times of conflict and anger even with God.
God understands better than we do that we are only human. Our hearts and minds, and bodies have been affected by sin. The great apostle Paul even acknowledged the limitations of “seeing through a glass darkly” and only “knowing in part” while in this present body. So, it’s no surprise that many of the great men and women of God found themselves expressing anger toward God in the Bible. Just read the Psalms, and you will find the Psalmists expressing their anger and questions to God. One classic example of this is Psalms 73. Read it, and you will see yourself at times frustrated in your own situation as you compare your lot with those who are unbelievers and seem to be doing so much better. It got the best of this Psalmist, Asaph, as he declared,
“When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered, I was senseless and ignorant; I was a brute beast before You.” Psalms 73:21-22 (NIV)
The good news is that God is big enough to handle our anger. While we should express it honestly and with respect, He doesn’t respond to the Psalmist in rebuke. He lets Asaph get it out. That seems to be the path of healing. Revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing. Look at the Psalm again. When he acknowledges his anger toward God, he says:“When I tried to understand all this, it was oppressive to me till I entered the sanctuary of God; then I understood their final destiny.” Psalms 73:16-17 (NIV)
Notice what happened when he entered the sanctuary. What a change of heart! Now he writes: “Yet I am always with You; You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with Your counsel, and afterward You will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven but You? And earth has nothing I desire besides You. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Those who are far from You will perish; You destroy all who are unfaithful to You. But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the Sovereign LORD my refuge; I will tell of all Your deeds.” Psalms 73:23-28 (NIV)
This is one of the great benefits of personal and corporate worship in church to me. When you find your heart embittered and you are angry at God, enter your sanctuary and pour your heart out to God. Read Psalm 73 again and let His Spirit gently guide you to a new perspective on your problem, one that you may have never considered because your anger kept your focus “me” centered. As you do, you may find resolve and be renewed in your faith.
Another important part of your daily devotional is spending time with God in prayer. The Woodlands Church Prayer Board lists prayer requests submitted by our members and provides a way to send them some encouragement by using a button on the page to let them know that you prayed for them. Whether you use the Prayer Board, or pray from your heart, the goal is to build the habit of incorporating prayer into your quiet time.
Need prayer yourself? Let us know by submitting a prayer request on the Woodlands Church Prayer Board.